Nowadays, many people are single in their twenties and they feel anxious as many people around them are married, they think they also should get married, especially for girls. Some of them choose to get married with the one seems suitable in a hurry, while some complain that there is no boy for them to fall in love and they will be single forever. They are wrong, because they do not realize the fact that single is the best time to improve yourself.

如今，很多二十多岁的人还是单身，他们因此而感到焦虑，因为他们身边的大部分人都结婚了，他们觉得他们也应该结婚了，特别是女孩子。所有有一部分人就选择与一个看似合适的对象匆忙结婚，有一部分则自怨自艾没有男孩子给她们谈恋爱，要注定孤独终老。她们真的太错了，因为她们没看清楚这个事实，单是是最好的升值期。

First of all, when you are in the single status, you don’t need to take your time to your new family or take your boyfriend’s bad mood into consideration. You have control all your time. You can arrange it all for yourself. If you want to go to the gym, party, travel, make new friends or read books, you can do it. Or you want to master some new skills, then you can do it now, because you have time.

首先，在你单身的时候你不用花时间去处理这个新组建起来的家庭问题，也不用去考虑男朋友的情绪问题。你对自己的时间有着完全控制权。你可以为自己自由安排这些时间。如果你想去健身，去参加聚会，去旅游，去结交新朋友或者看书，就去吧。或者你想学习新技能，现在也可以去做了，因为你有的是时间。

Secondly, when you try to improve yourself and you actually do it, you will feel that you are a better person than before. So do the people around you. And when you are better, you will meet better people, then you may meet your Mr. Right. Besides, if you get improved, you will feel happier. You don’t need to self-denial or bow to the reality for now. You can take this chance to be a better person.

其次，当你试图提升自我的时候，而且你也确实做了，你就会感到自己与之前的自己相比，好了很多。你周围的人也会这样觉得的。而且，当你变得更好的时候，你也会遇到更好的人，也许就认识了你的真命天子了。除此之外，如果你提升了自我，你也会更开心的。所以，现在你没有必要进行自我否定或者屈服于现实。你可以抓住这次机会成为更好的人。