All of the heart-break broke up won’t be harder than the final good-bye in the life. When that day comes to you, the broke up that you have been through just was a piece of cake. Sometimes our lover leaving us only will make our life better.

所有痛彻心扉的分手都不会痛苦过人生的最后一别。当那一天到来，你所经历的分手只不过是小事一桩。有时候我们的爱人离开我们只是为了让我们的生活更美好。

How many times should we have to go through the separate so that we could get used to the people get into our life then go away, and understand that there is no forever in our life? It is far better take things as they come along with patience and equanimity.

我们要经历多少次分离才会习惯别人走进我们的生活然后又离开，才会明白生活是没有永远可言的。最好是用耐心与平静来处理这些事情。

Every separate with love or hate is a painful split. If you couldn’t smile to say goodbye, then could you silently turn around, close your eyes, hold on your tears and leave. No one force you to fall in love with him. Sooner or later, you will smile face to your painful. You will thank the guy who had leaved you, because he doesn’t deserve your love, your fineness, your infatuation. He is just not the one for you.

每一次带着爱或者恨的分离都是痛苦的撕裂。如果你不能笑着说再见，那么你能默默地转身，闭上你的眼睛，忍住泪水然后离开么?没人逼你爱上他，迟早你都会笑着面对你的痛苦。你会感谢那个离开你的男人，因为他不配得到你的爱，你的好，你的迷恋。他不是你要的那个人。

In our lifetime, it will be great if we could be together with our lover, if not, maybe you don’t fit to each other.Sometimes the one you loved just a passers-by in your life, he show up in your life to make you learn to cherish and pay, to make you know what you really what in your life.

在我们一生中，能和相爱的人在一起是极好的，如果不能，也许只是你们不合适对方。有时候你爱的那个人只是你人生中的过客，他出现在你的生活中，让你学会了珍惜与付出，让你知道你到底想要的是什么。

Every no ending relationship is an experience and toughening for you. At the moment of break up, your heart broke into pieces, you cry a river, but all you left to do is get up, dry your tears and move on. There is one or a few you love with your life, only just because he leave you first, he sad he doesn’t love you anymore, but you have no chance to say the same word to him. In this case, you leave it along, it’s fine.

每段没有结局的感情都是一段经验，让你坚强。在分手的那一刻，你的心碎了，你泪流成河，但你能做的就是站起来，擦干泪水，然后继续走下去。在你人生中会有那么一个或者几个你爱的人，只是因为他先离开你，他说他不再爱你，但你没有机会去对他说同样的话，如果真的遇到这样的事情，你就别管这个了，一切会好的。

When you getting older, I mean really old, maybe you will remember the one who had leaved you, you will remember the fuzzy face in your mind, you will thank him for leaving, and it’s he who make room for your happiness.

当你变老了，我的意思是真的很老那种，也许你会记得那个离开你的人，你会记得你脑海中那张模糊的脸，你会感谢他离开了你，因为是他的离开给你让出了幸福的空间。