Basic principles:

基本原则…

No woman wakes up saying:

没有女人起床时会说…

"God, I hope I don't get swept off my feet today."

“希望今天不会有帅哥追我”

Now, she might say, "This is a really bad time for me."

她可能会说：“现在时机不太对”

Or something like, "I just need some space."

或是这句：“我只是需要一点空间”

Or my personal favorite:

或是我最喜欢的…

"I'm really into my career right now."

“我现在正在全心发展事业”

You believe that? Neither does she.

你相信吗?她也不信

You know why? Because she's lying to you, that's why.

知道原因吗? 因为她在骗你

You understand me? Lying.

听懂了吗?骗你的

It's not a bad time for her. She doesn't need any space.

时机并没有不对 她也不需要空间

She may be into her career...

她也许专心事业…

but what she's really saying is, "Get away from me now."

但她其实是说：“给我滚开”

Or possibly, "Try harder, stupid."

或是：“再努力点吧，笨蛋”

Well, which one is it?

到底是什么意思呢?

60% of all human communication is nonverbal.

人类沟通有六成不是靠说话

Body language.

身体语言

30% is your tone.

三成靠你说话的音调

So that means that 90% of what you're saying...

那表示你的意思传达中有九成…

ain't coming out of your mouth.

不是用嘴巴讲的

Toby!

托比!

Of course she'll lie to you.

她当然会骗你

Shit!

糟了!

She's a nice person, she doesn't wanna hurt your feelings.

她是个好人，她不想伤害你

What else is she gonna say? She doesn't even know you.

她还能说什么?她跟你又不熟

Yet.

还不熟

Luckily, the fact is that just like the rest of us...

很幸运地，和我们一样…

even a beautiful woman doesn't know what she wants until she sees it.

就算美女也不知道自己要什么

And that's where I come in.

这就是我的工作

My job is to open her eyes.

我要让她看清楚

Oh, my God!

我的老天!

Is this what you're looking for?

你在找它吗?

Basic principles: No matter what, no matter when, no matter who...

基本原则：不论何事、不论何时 不论何人…

any man has a chance to sweep any woman off her feet.

任何男人都有机会迷倒任何女人

Just needs the right broom.

只要方法正确