When I met my wife, Amiira, I became a differentguy, a man who showed up, suited up, and was gladto do so, because I believe in love the verb, not thenoun.

当我遇到我的妻子艾米拉时，我完全成了另外一个人，我会打扮一番出现在她面前，还乐此不疲，因为我相信爱是行动，不是说说而已。

I believe in letting the woman I love know I love herall the time with my actions.

我想通过行动让我爱的女人知道我永远爱她。

Why do I care about you?

我为什么关心你?

Because I have a sister and many women friends whom I love dearly, despite theirunwillingness to hear the clanging bells of a crappy relationship.

因为我有挚爱的妹妹和女性朋友们，尽管她们不想听到对这段蹩脚关系的警告。

Because I have a wonderful sister and so many amazing women friends who still don't have theconfidence to believe that they deserve better and will only find someone better after theyunload the dead weight of an inadequate suitor.

因为我那个可爱的妹妹和那些了不起的女性朋友们仍没有信心相信他们值得更好的，不相信只有把这个累赘——不合适的追求者——卸下，她们才能找到更好的。

Because I have an incredible sister and so many brilliant women friends who don't yet trulyaccept that profound love is uplifting, joyous, inspiring, and intoxicating, and that theyshould never settle for anything less.

因为我那个超级优秀的妹妹以及那些杰出的女性朋友们还不能真心接受长远的爱情是积极、快乐、鼓舞人心、醉人的，还不能接受让她们就不要轻易满足。

Shitty relationships make you feel shitty, and that's not what you were put on this earth for.

不合拍的关系让你觉得不快乐，你拥有的不是这样的恋情。

It's all fun and games to have some insight and a witty reply to your letters, but at the corethe "He's just not that into you" concept can truly have a magical transcendent effect.

对你的来信做出有见解、巧妙的回答既是乐趣也是博弈。但是“他其实没那么喜欢你”的主概念确有魔法般超凡的效果。

It's not bad news if it helps you free yourself from a relationship that is beneath you.

如果这抽身离开一段不适合你的恋情倒也不是一个坏消息。

And we both know that only you can free yourself.

我们都知道只有靠你自己从中解脱。

I don't pretend to know how to fix you.

我不是假装知道该怎么帮你。

I do know how to help you recognize the problem.

我真的知道该怎样帮助你认识到这个问题。

I do know that you are worthy of having great relationships and an even better life.

我确信你值得拥有一段很棒的恋爱关系，过上更好的生活。

I do think you are beautiful and somewhere deep down inside you know it too, otherwise youwouldn't be here.

我真觉得你很美，在内心深处你也知道，要不然你也不会在这。

I believe life is a speedy and awesome gift, so don't waste the pretty.

我相信生活是一份即稍纵即逝又赞的馈赠，不要浪费了这份美意。

If you are reading this, you want something better.

如果你正在读这个，说明你想要更好的。

If you are reading this, I want something better for you too. —Greg

如果你正在读这个，我也希望有更好的在等你。