他其实没那么喜欢你 第23期:继续你自己的生活
你应该在本章学到什么
If he's not calling you, it's because you are not on his mind.
如果他不打电话给你，是因为你不在他心上。
If he creates expectations for you, and then doesn'tfollow through on little things, he will do the same forbig things. Be aware of this and realize that he's okaywith disappointing you.
如果他给你带来了期望，但不在小事情上坚持下去，那他对待大事情也会如此。要意识并察觉到他不在乎会让你失望。
Don't be with someone who doesn't do what they say they're going to do.
不要和那些言行不一的人在一起。
If he's choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to arecurring fight, then he doesn't respect your feelings and needs.
如果他不愿意做一点小小的努力去让你放心，化解反复的吵架，那么他根本不尊重你的感受和需求。
“Busy” is another word for “asshole.” “Asshole” is another word for the guy you're dating.
“忙”意味着“混蛋”。”你的约会对象是个“混蛋”。
You deserve a fucking phone call.
你值得一个该死的电话。
Our Super-Good Really Helpful Exercise
我们超级好的有益练习
We all love multiple choice. Here's a hopefully easy one for you:
我们都爱多重选择。希望这个对你来说很容易：
A guy you went out with once and slept with hasn't called you in two weeks. Do you:
一个和你约会过一次并睡过的人，在2周内都没给你打过电话。你会：
A. jump to the conclusion that he's just really busy, lost your phone number, and was struck in theskull, and is now suffering from short-term memory loss, and you should call him?
A. 得出一个结论，他只是真的很忙，丢了你的电话号码，头骨被击中，现在正经历着痛苦的短期记忆丧失，你应该打电话给他?
B. quit your job, stay at home, call the telephone company to make sure your phone works, andwait for him to call?
B. 辞去你的工作，呆在家里，打电话给公司确保你的电话畅通，等他打电话给你?
C. realize he's just not that into you and move on with your life?
C. 意识到他只是没那么喜欢你，继续你自己的生活?
Good for you. You answered C.We knew it was easy—but doesn't it feel good to make the rightchoice?
很好。你选了C，我们知道这很容易，但做出正确的选择不觉得很棒吗?
