1. Not Sticking to Agreements   不守约定

When agreements are made, women tend to break them or change them to suit their needs, no matter what the situation is.

一旦立下约定，女人往往会不遵守，或是按自己的需要更改，才不去管合不合时宜。

2. Keeping Their Feelings   隐藏自己的感受

It's stereotypical to believe women share automatically how they are feeling. Actually, women will hold in their feelings until they are asked often enough that they spill what is on their minds.

老一套的观点认为，女人会主动地分享她们的内心感受。其实，女人会隐藏自己的感受，只有当她们被问到一定的时候，才肯将心里话倾出肺腑。

3. Try to Change Their Men    试图改造自己的男人

Women often understand men but don't agree with the way they are. Women try to change them to suit their needs or leave them alone completely.

女人往往了解男人，可又不认同他们的行为方式。女人要么试图改变他们以符合她们的需要，要么就彻底将他们仍在一边。

4. Mate Comparison   比较伴侣

Women, sometimes unknowingly, compare their current mate to their ex in terms of negative aspects. Comparisons should be made when it's favorable.

女人——有时不自觉地——会在说现任伴侣的缺点时，将前任伴侣拿出来做比较。但是实际上应该是比较优点才对。

5. Belittling His Hobbies   贬损他的嗜好

Everyone has a hobby or two that their mate doesn't like. However, you should never keep them from doing it. Also, never demand that they take an interest in your hobby. The message you send is that your hobbies are much more important than his and that's not the message you should be sending.

每个人都有一两种嗜好是他伴侣所不喜欢的。然而，你绝不应该禁止他去做。还有，绝不要强迫他选择你的嗜好，因为你所传达的信息就是：你的嗜好远比他的重要。你不能传达出这种信息。

6. Gossiping   八卦

While it would seem to stroke the man's ego, men don't like women gossiping about them, whether it's good or bad.

男人不喜欢女人八卦他们，无论是正面还是负面的，因为这看上去有伤男人的自尊。

7. Nagging   唠叨

Men do not like it when a woman constantly nags them about getting things done whether or not it's with good intentions.

无论女人是不是出于好心，男人不喜欢女人总是叫他们做这个做那个唠叨个没完。

8. Interruption  打断谈话

Believe it or not, a man needs to talk to so it's best you listen with an open mind and not try to interrupt. Men do not like it when a woman listens but looks impatient to talk too. If you interrupt him with something else not relevant to the current conversation, you could create tension.

信不信由你，男人需要人与之交谈。所以你最好聚精会神地去倾听，而不要总想打断。男人也不喜欢女人在听他们讲话时表现出不耐烦的样子。如果你用不相干的事情打断了他，你就可能在你们彼此之间制造出紧张气氛。

9. Solution Oriented vs. Conversation Oriented   解决问题型 vs. 交谈型

Men like to get to the bottom of things so don't get upset if they don't want to talk for hours about a particular subject.

男人喜欢直入主题，所以如果他们不想就某个具体话题谈论几个小时，你也不要不高兴。

10. Beauty Conscious   臭美

Men do not like it when a woman spends a lot of time looking at herself in the mirror but still looks the same as she always does.

男人不喜欢女人在镜子前面大费时光地端详自己，但其实，她们看上去还和往常一样。

11. Paranoia  偏执狂

Men don't like it when a woman gets paranoid about the way she looks. If your man doesn't like the way you look, they wouldn't be with you.

男人不喜欢女人过分怀疑自己的外貌。要是你的男人不喜欢你的样貌，他就不会和你在一起了。

12. Insecure/Jealously  多疑或嫉妒

Believe it or not, men do not like jealousy, even a small bit. This is especially true if you are out on a date together and catch their eye wander. You make a wise crack about it. This actually annoys them very much.

你爱信不信，男人不喜欢爱吃醋的女人，哪怕只有一丁点。特别是当你们一起出去时，如果你抓住了他那到处游移的眼睛，并对此说了一句俏皮话，那其实这会使他大为光火的。