Key Words in Your Life　代表你一生经历的四个词

◎ J.R. Ridinger


Life comes in a package. This package includes happiness and sorrow, failure and success, hope and despair. Life is a learning process. Experiences in life teach us new lessons and make us a better person. With each passing day we learn to handle various situations.
Love
Love plays a pivotal role on our life. Love makes you feel wanted. Without love a person could go Hayward and also become cruel and ferocious. In the early stage of our life, our parents are the ones who shower us with unconditional love and care, they teach us about what is right and wrong, good and bad. But we always tend to take this for granted. It is only after marriage and having kids that a person understands and becomes sensitive to others feelings. Kids make a person responsible and mature and help us to understand life better.
Happiness and Sorrow
Materialistic happiness is short-lived, but happiness achieved by bringing a smile on others face gives a certain level of fulfillment. Peace of mind is the main link to happiness. No mind is happy without peace. We realize the true worth of happiness when we are in sorrow. Sorrow is basically due to death of a loved one, failure and despair. But these things are temporary and pass away.
Failure and Success
Failure is the path to success. It helps us to touch the sky, teaches us to survive and shows us a specific way. Success brings in money, fame, pride and self-respect. Here it becomes very important to keep our head on our shoulder. The only way to show our gratitude to God for bestowing success on us is by being humble, modest, courteous and respectful to the less fortunate ones.
Hope and Despair
Hope is what keeps life going. Parents always hope their children will do well. Hope makes us dream. Hope builds in patience. Life teaches us not to despair even in the darkest hour, because after every night there is a day. Nothing remains the same we have only one choice keep moving on in life and be hopeful.
Life teaches us not to regret over yesterday, for it has passed and is beyond our control. Tomorrow is unknown, for it could either be bright or dull. So the only alternative is work hard today, so that we will enjoy a better tomorrow.


生活来临时就像个包裹，囊括快乐和悲伤，成功和失败，希望和绝望。人生是个不断学习的过程，其中的经历给我们教训，让我们成为更优秀的人。每一天，我们都在学会处理不同的状况。
爱
爱扮演着生活中最关键的角色。爱让你觉得你被需要。没有爱，一个人会误入歧途，变得残忍、凶猛。在我们人生的初期，家长给我们无条件的爱护与关照，教我们分辨对与错。我们往往觉得这理所当然。直到我们结婚生子，才会去理解别人，照顾别人的感受。孩子让你学会负责，变成熟，让你更好地体会生活。
快乐和悲伤
物质上的开心是短暂的，给别人带来快乐才会让你更有满足感。平静的心境是通往幸福的主要渠道。所有的幸福都是和平的。当我们伤心时才会意识到幸福的真正价值。基本上，悲伤是由爱人的离去引起的，还有失败与失望的因素。但是这些都是暂时的，转瞬即逝。
成功和失败
失败是成功的必经之路。它用特殊的途径教会我们触及蓝天，教会我们如何生存。伴随成功而来的是金钱、名誉、自豪与自尊。这时，做回我们自己就非常重要了。我们感谢上帝给予成功的唯一方法，就是保持谦逊与礼貌，尊重那些没有我们幸运的人。
希望与绝望
希望是生命的动力之源。家长总是希望孩子成功。希望让我们梦想。希望会锻炼我们的耐心。生活告诉我们即使在最黑暗的时候，也不要绝望，因为每晚过后又是新的一天。没有什么事是一成不变的，我们只有一个选择，继续生活，充满希望。
生活还告诉我们不要为昨天而后悔，因为那已是过去，我们无能为力。明天是未知的，有可能愉快，有可能沉闷。所以，唯一的选择就是今天努力，让明天能更美好。